Iradukunda Subila Emerthe, better known as “Bibila” on TikTok, is inspiring thousands with her resilience and positivity. She turned to the platform seeking comfort after years of being mistreated and judged because of her disability, but in the process, she found her voice—and fame.
Hailing from Rwanda’s Nyanza District, Iradukunda lost both her legs at the tender age of three. What started as a seemingly mild illness quickly worsened, affecting her legs so severely that doctors had no choice but to amputate them.
Her childhood was filled with challenges, as she navigated life in a society that didn’t always understand her condition. “What comes must be borne,” a Rwandan saying goes, and Iradukunda embodied this sentiment. But accepting her new reality wasn’t easy.
In an interview with KURA, she shared the pain of being mocked, excluded, and disrespected by those who didn’t understand her struggles. Hurtful words about her disability left her feeling overwhelmed, often bringing her to tears. Yet, she found solace in her mother, who became her rock during the darkest moments.
Life took a positive turn when Iradukunda enrolled in Gatagara, a school for people with disabilities. For the first time, she felt a sense of belonging, surrounded by peers who shared similar challenges.
Later, she pursued higher education at IPRC Kigali (Rwanda Polytechnic – Kigali College), studying graphic design. Initially, the thought of studying alongside able-bodied students was daunting. She isolated herself at first but gradually found the courage to integrate and excel.
Throughout her journey, Iradukunda credits her mother and grandmother for instilling in her the values of self-acceptance and joy. Their unwavering support helped her weather life’s storms.
After university, Iradukunda faced a new challenge—starting her career without the resources to invest in professional graphic design tools. Instead of giving up, she adapted. Today, she works as an MTN agent, helping people transfer money and buy airtime, while nurturing dreams of financial success.
TikTok became her creative outlet. Known as “Bibila,” she dances to trending songs, shares uplifting content, and engages with her followers. “I use social media to make myself happy and avoid feeling isolated,” she explained.
While Iradukunda radiates positivity, life as a disabled woman in Rwanda isn’t without its struggles. Public transportation remains a constant source of frustration. She described waiting at bus stops, only to be ignored by buses or told there’s no space for her.
“I don’t know why it still hurts when I remember this, though I should be used to it,” she admitted. “Imagine having an urgent appointment and being left behind because buses won’t stop for you. It’s painful.”
Even on social media, where she spreads joy, hurtful comments occasionally surface. But Iradukunda refuses to let negativity define her. She chooses to focus on her happiness and growth.
Through her experiences, Iradukunda has become a beacon of hope for others. She encourages people with disabilities to embrace their happiness and self-worth.
“To those who feel shy or afraid, remember this: nothing is more important than being happy. When you’re happy, you can achieve anything. Love yourself, find joy, and don’t let anyone discourage you. Be confident and integrate with others,” she said.
She also debunked stereotypes about people with disabilities, emphasizing that they are approachable, friendly, and capable of contributing meaningful ideas.
To families raising children with disabilities, Iradukunda offered heartfelt advice: “Caring for a disabled child is like nurturing a flower. With love and attention, they’ll thrive and always remember your strength. Show them love and involve them in conversations.”
While grateful for the Rwandan government’s support of people with disabilities, Iradukunda hopes for further improvements—particularly in public transportation.
“I thank the Government of Rwanda for its continued support, but I urge them to address the challenges we face with public transport. It would make life so much easier for us.”
Iradukunda Subila Emerthe’s story is a testament to resilience and determination. She proves that even in the face of adversity, one can rise above challenges and pursue happiness and success.
Her journey inspires others to embrace their individuality and overcome obstacles with courage. And for Iradukunda, her message is clear: “Disability is not a reason to stop dreaming.”
