Everyone says marrying the right person is everything, but who is the right person?
Marriage is not only a hard decision to make, but also a life-changing one. That’s why I am more than sure that when it comes to that, everyone struggles to make the right choice. To choose the right person, at the right time. But the uncanny trick lies in how a right person can be recognized.
Humans, if not everything in nature, are unpredictable as we have heard. In a blink of an eye, a person can change from being kind to being the cruelest you’ve ever met. With that in the line, it is not that easy as it is said, to choose the right person to spend your whole life with.
Though that is true, the role of some points in assessing a life partner can’t be neglected. That’s why if you’re feeling the urge to find the right life partner, I can advise you to consider the following tips:
Weigh your similarities and differences
They say opposites attract each other, and that is undoubtedly true. However, it is better to make sure you have some few similarities, so that later in life, you can always find an easy way to connect. Differences should be there too. Just make sure you’re not polar opposites or doppelgangers in terms of characters and personality.
Looks are just a drop in the ocean
Yes, you are free to choose a partner whose physique attracts you more than anybody else’s. However, you should remember that looks are so deceiving. Go into depths, analyze the behaviors, preferences, and everything that a naked eye can’t see.
Listening and being open during arguments
They say “you can’t live with someone without having some random fights”. That being true, living together is not about being perfect. It is about understanding and patience. If a person can’t stay calm during a simple argument, imagine the time when there will be some serious family problems. Are you sure you will be able to handle them? Are you sure the whole family won’t be messed up in a blink of an eye?
Respect
There are many issues that respect can handle even when bare love can’t. In that line, it is always important to be with someone who respects your preferences, choices and personal space.
Do not rush
They say ‘anything worth doing is worth doing slowly’. Do not let society, age-related myths and the pace of someone else trick you into moving things faster. Take your time, observe, learn about mistakes, reflect and finally, choose.
Choosing a partner should be done slowly and properly, because after all, who would want to spend their life with a wrong person. These tips can really help, but the important thing to know is that it is not as easy as it sounds. Give it time, give it a thought, and live a long happy life.
